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What is Online Predators?

Online predators are adults who use the internet to target and exploit minors, typically through social media, gaming platforms, or messaging apps. They often use deception — pretending to be peers or romantic interests — and build trust through a gradual process called grooming before attempting to exploit children.

Why It Matters for Families

Children and teens are particularly vulnerable because online predators are skilled at identifying and exploiting emotional needs — loneliness, desire for attention, or relationship conflict at home. The anonymity of the internet makes it easier for predators to misrepresent their identity and intent.

Warning Signs to Watch For

  • 1Receives gifts, money, or online credits from someone you don't know
  • 2Becomes secretive about who they're talking to online
  • 3Switches screens or closes devices quickly when you approach
  • 4Withdraws from family or uses devices in isolated locations
  • 5Uses unfamiliar apps or has accounts you weren't aware of

What You Can Do

Maintain open conversations about who your child talks to online without being accusatory. Enable privacy settings that prevent strangers from contacting them. If you suspect grooming or exploitation, contact the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) at 1-800-THE-LOST or cybertipline.org, and local law enforcement immediately.

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Related Terms

Grooming
Grooming is the process by which an adult builds trust and emotional connection with a child — and often their family — in order to manipulate and exploit them. Online grooming typically involves flattery, gift-giving, shared secrets, and gradually pushing boundaries to normalize inappropriate interactions.
Catfishing
Catfishing occurs when someone creates a fake online identity — using false photos, a made-up name, and fabricated details — to deceive another person, typically to pursue a relationship or manipulate them emotionally. Catfishers often steal photos from other people's social media accounts to make the fake profile convincing.
Sextortion
Sextortion is a form of online blackmail in which someone threatens to share sexual images or videos of a person unless they comply with demands — typically for more explicit content, money, or other favors. It can follow from a romantic deception or from hacking private images.
Talking to Strangers Online
Online stranger danger refers to the risks posed when children interact with people they don't know in real life through social media, gaming, messaging apps, or online communities. Unlike in-person encounters, online strangers can easily conceal their true identity, age, or intentions.
Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is bullying that happens through digital devices — phones, computers, or tablets — via apps, social media, text messages, or online gaming. It includes sending mean messages, spreading rumors online, posting embarrassing photos, or excluding someone from online groups repeatedly over time.