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Account Privacy Settings
Start with the foundation: set your child's BeReal account to private so only approved people can see their content. Review who can send them messages — on BeReal, this means enabling private friends-only mode. Check the account's linked email and phone number, and enable two-factor authentication to prevent account takeover. These steps take about 10 minutes and provide significant baseline protection.
Content and Interaction Controls
BeReal offers location privacy and account settings to reduce exposure to social comparison and self-esteem. Enable comment filtering to block offensive keywords. Turn off the ability for strangers to tag or mention your child. Disable any "suggested accounts" or "people you may know" features that could expose them to unfamiliar users. Review these settings every few months — platforms update their interfaces regularly.
Activity and Visibility Settings
Reduce what BeReal surfaces about your child to others: turn off activity status (so others can't see when they're online), disable location data in posts, and review what information is visible on their public profile. For parents of teens, consider removing the profile picture from public view entirely and using a username that doesn't include their real name.
Tools Beyond BeReal's Built-in Settings
Platform settings are a good start, but they only cover one app. CleoSocial's content filtering and parental controls provide a cross-platform layer that applies consistent rules across everything your child uses. Combined with time limits and the activity dashboard, you get a clearer picture of what's happening without needing to audit every setting on every app individually.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the most important BeReal settings to enable?
Priority order: (1) private account, (2) private friends-only mode, (3) location privacy, (4) comment keyword filters, (5) disable activity status. These five settings cover the majority of common social comparison and self-esteem vectors on BeReal.
How often should I review the settings?
Every three to six months — and after any major BeReal app update. Platforms occasionally reset privacy settings or introduce new features with permissive defaults. A quick quarterly audit keeps your configuration current.
Can my child change the settings themselves?
Yes, unless you've set up parental controls at the device level or through account settings. Have an explicit agreement with your child about which settings to keep enabled, and check periodically that they haven't changed. Frame it as a shared commitment to safety, not a restriction.
Are BeReal's built-in settings enough?
They're necessary but not sufficient. Platform settings reduce risk within BeReal, but they don't cover other apps, don't provide visibility into usage patterns, and can be circumvented by a determined teenager. Layer them with household rules, open conversations, and optionally a family management tool like CleoSocial for broader coverage.
One Dashboard for All Your Family's Apps
CleoSocial extends your safety settings across every platform — not just BeReal.